Birthstones

February birthstone: the amethyst

By the Merrylet teamUpdated

The February birthstone is the amethyst, the purple variety of quartz. It ranges from soft lilac to deep purple and stands for inner strength. The ancient Greeks believed it kept the wearer clear-headed.

Plate IIFebruaryA painted purple amethyst, the February birthstone
Amethyst

The amethyst at a glance

Amethyst

Quartz

Inner strength and a clear head

Colors
Lilac to deep purple
Hardness
7 on the Mohs scale
Anniversary
6th wedding anniversary
ZodiacAquarius, then Pisces from February 19

What does amethyst mean?

Today amethyst stands for inner strength and personal empowerment. In older lore it was believed to keep the wearer clear-headed and quick-witted, in battle and in business.

Its wine-like color tied it to Bacchus, the god of wine, and Renaissance Europeans thought it could calm lovers overrun by passion.

Against drunkenness

Amethyst comes from the Greek amethystos, a remedy against drunkenness, a power long credited to the stone.

What color is the February birthstone?

Purple, from a soft lilac to a deep, wine-like violet. Some stones carry a hint of red or blue alongside the purple.

Amethyst can fade in long, strong light, so it is not a stone to wear to the beach every day.

Why is amethyst a royal stone?

Royals have admired its purple since at least the days of Alexander the Great, and it sits in royal collections across Europe and Asia.

Catherine the Great of Russia wore amethyst necklaces, earrings and more. Once as rare as ruby or emerald, it became far easier to find in the 1800s, when large deposits turned up in Brazil.

1953The year the Duchess of Windsor wore a Cartier amethyst bib necklace, with a large heart-shaped amethyst at the front, to a gala at Versailles.

How to care for an amethyst

Amethyst is a 7 on the Mohs scale, hard enough for a ring worn every day, though it may need repolishing over the years. Keep it apart from diamonds, rubies and sapphires, which can scratch it.

Clean it with mild soap and a soft brush, and skip the steam cleaner.

Where does amethyst come from?

Russia was the main source until the 1800s. Today most amethyst comes from South America and Africa.

Known for
BrazilLighter purple, and geodes big enough to stand in
BoliviaThe Anahí mine, also home of two-tone ametrine
ZambiaThe Kariba mine, with richly saturated color
Arizona, USThe Four Peaks mine: dark purple and purplish red

Lab-grown amethyst has been made since the 1970s and has the same chemistry as mined amethyst. Sellers are required to tell you which one you are buying.

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Give them their stone

A locket fit for an amethyst, and for them

The Locket birthday card

Send The Locket birthday card by text and they open it on their phone: an antique gold locket on old lace, lit by candlelight. One tap on the clasp and the lid swings open, pressed petals drift out, and there they are inside, a portrait miniature painted from the photo you add, coming alive and meeting their eyes.

Something to write inside
  • An amethyst for you: here’s to a clear head and a strong heart.
  • Purple suits you. It always has. Happy birthday.
  • Born in February, with all the quiet strength of an amethyst.

Watch the card before you write a word. Your first greeting card is free.

February birthstone questions

What is the February birthstone?
The February birthstone is the amethyst, the purple variety of quartz. It ranges from soft lilac to deep purple.
What does amethyst mean?
Amethyst stands for inner strength and a clear head. Its name comes from the Greek amethystos, a remedy against drunkenness, and it was long believed to keep the wearer clear-headed.
What anniversary is amethyst for?
Amethyst is the gem traditionally given for the 6th wedding anniversary, as well as being the February birthstone.
Can you wear an amethyst every day?
Yes. Amethyst is a 7 on the Mohs scale, hard enough for a ring worn daily, though harder gems can scratch it and some amethyst fades in long, strong light.
What is the February birth flower?
February has two birth flowers: the violet and the primrose. The February birthstone is the amethyst.

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